#WhatNow
Jul
18
to Jul 27

#WhatNow

Alley Theatre presents:

A verbatim theatre/dance creation about sex and hashtags. #realstories #experimental #youhavetoseeittoknowmore #whatthe%@!*isahashtaganyway #nastywoman #naughtygirl #feminist #thisshitisgoingtogetreal #etceteraetcetera

Tanille will be the show moderator for pre-show & post-show support.

Tickets available here: https://tickets.theatrewire.com/shows/whatnow/events

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Consent Matters: 2 Part Training Workshop
May
26
1:00 PM13:00

Consent Matters: 2 Part Training Workshop

Presented by Sunset Labs:

PART 1: #ConsentMatters 101
1:00PM-2:30PM | Pay What You Can
Come learn the nuances of what enthusiastic consent is through this interactive workshop. Consent on the dance floor all the way to a long term relationship: What does healthy consent feel like? Come learn the spunky side of consent to have more meaningful connections in your life!

PART 2: #ConsentMatters AMBASSADOR TRAINING
3:00PM-4:30PM | Sliding Scale: $20-$40
Taking off from completing the 101 workshop, you will receive a deeper comprehensive training on how to support consent culture in your life, in your communities, and at events. Learn skills, tools, and resources on how to create a safer space.

FB Event Here: https://www.facebook.com/events/2470980619796145/

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The Riot Grrrls Revue presents: A Super Queer Wedding Show
May
25
7:00 PM19:00

The Riot Grrrls Revue presents: A Super Queer Wedding Show

The Riot Grrrls Revue is inviting you to attend our immersive dinner theatre event - a Super Queer Wedding! People who buy tickets will be attending as "guests" but no audience participation is required. This is a heart-warming, queer feminist show that deconstructs a lot of aspects of traditional wedding ceremonies. And is also going to be a LOT of fun!

DRESS UP LIKE YOU'RE ATTENDING A WEIRD AND WONDERFUL WEDDING - BECAUSE YOU ARE!

We invite people of all genders and sexualities and from all walks of life to join us and connect with us - bring your parent(s), bring your partner(s), come alone. Come be part of the supportive and loving feminist energy that we all need!

Consent Captain for the evening: the lovely Tanille Geib

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CONSENT - Model Support Night
May
6
6:00 PM18:00

CONSENT - Model Support Night

In collaboration with MKM Photography, come for a night of boundary building and friend making. 
This evening is specifically for womxn models or actresses to come together and speak about model safety in front of the lens. 
The goal of this session is to not only come together as a community, but also to help build strength of network. 
Tanille Geib is a lover of humans and works within Victoria and abroad as a Consent specialist. She will be working with us this evening to help the conversation!
Ideally this information will lead to a session for photographers to understand ways that they can reduce harm and problematic behaviour toward their subjects. But before we can educate them, we need to identify what we need!

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Sexuality Salon: Community Talk Show NON-MONOGAMY
Apr
15
7:00 PM19:00

Sexuality Salon: Community Talk Show NON-MONOGAMY

Join Tanille Geib and community members in Victoria's live talk show and community space all about sexuality at the Victoria Event Centre! We will bask in knowledge of sexuality with guests who have an intimate connection with the topic of the month. We will celebrate self expression in an artistic way by inviting artists to perform aspects of their own sexuality or perspectives. We will delve into weekly popular media with a critical thinking discussion. We will create a space where community can gather and experience a sex positive, celebratory way of exploring sexuality. We will do it together.

This month's topic is NON-MONOGAMY. More details coming soon!
Community members & artists:
Co-Hosted with Nested Heart Counselling with Cora Bilsker
Panel with Mel Mariposa of Radical Relationships
Performance Artist: Joey Burn
And more panelists: Poly want another cracker, and Khan.

FB event here: https://www.facebook.com/events/2200714463499804/

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Shade: A Night of Colourful Burlesque
Apr
14
7:30 PM19:30

Shade: A Night of Colourful Burlesque

House of Cheek, in association with EP Promotions, is proud to bring you “SHADE: a night of colourful burlesque!” Featuring an all people of colour (POC) cast from a variety of backgrounds and communities, it is our mission to create greater visibility and safer spaces for our POC within the performing arts community.

Tanille was there to support Tera Greene in her role as Consent Captain for this event.

FB Event here: https://www.facebook.com/events/337054543599372/

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Bass Hive XII - Ladies Night Vol. 3
Mar
30
to Mar 31

Bass Hive XII - Ladies Night Vol. 3

Why the Bass Hive? In the beehive superorganism all members are aiming for the same goal; ensuring the survival of the colony. The Bass Hive is a series of events that wants to bring the Victoria Bass community together to ensure the survival of our festival minds over the winter.

Tanille will be there as the Consent Captain and the welcoming of this event.

Facebook info here.

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Sexuality Salon: Trans Love
Mar
25
7:00 PM19:00

Sexuality Salon: Trans Love

Join Tanille Geib and community members in Victoria's live talk show and community space all about sexuality at the Victoria Event Centre! We will bask in knowledge of sexuality with guests who have an intimate connection with the topic of the month. We will celebrate self expression in an artistic way by inviting artists to perform aspects of their own sexuality or perspectives. We will delve into weekly popular media with a critical thinking discussion. We will create a space where community can gather and experience a sex positive, celebratory way of exploring sexuality. We will do it together.

This month's topic is TRANS LOVE.

INFO HERE!

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MISC MASC- Consent & Pleasure
Mar
19
7:00 PM19:00

MISC MASC- Consent & Pleasure

MISC MASC (Miscellaneous Masculinities)
Exploring Healthy Masculinity Part 2: Consent & Pleasure

Join us at The Copper Owl for part two of Misc Masc: Consent and
Pleasure. Communication is key to healthy relationships. However,
consent goes well beyond clarity, comfort, and care. Practicing
consent is the language of intimacy and pleasure, allowing us to
fulfill our desires and connect to authenticity and vulnerability.
Joining us will be guest speakers Tanille Geib (Healthy Humans), Geoff Plint, MA, RCC (Geoff Plint Counselling) and Musician Honte to help us get the conversation going.

FB Event here.

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VIPIRG 2019 Conference: Sex in the City Panel
Mar
16
3:30 PM15:30

VIPIRG 2019 Conference: Sex in the City Panel

Sex and the City: A Conversation About Love and Romance This discussion explores how the advent of technologically mediated hookup culture has created tensions between traditional versus modern notions of sex and marriage. Panellists discuss their perspectives on whether conventional notions of love and dating can work for everyone, and different avenues to love in the era of swipe left and social dating platforms. Discussion will include perspectives on definitions of dating, forms of companionship, what commitment looks like, and whether labels are still necessary.

Tanille will be speaking on this panel. Join us! Info here: https://vipirg.ca/conference/ & https://www.facebook.com/events/382908942542843/

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Womxn's Week at the VEC!
Mar
4
to Mar 11

Womxn's Week at the VEC!

A week to celebrate, to get inspired, to feel empowered! Let's create a community of kickass humans, together! Check out all of the spectacular events below. We invite people of all gender expressions and sexualities and from all walks of life to join us!

Mar 4: Movie Night & Pop Up Shops
https://www.facebook.com/events/399235620648235/

Mar 5: Womxn's Week Speakeasy
https://www.facebook.com/events/949310371946053/

Mar 6: Womxn's Outerspace Variety Show
https://www.facebook.com/events/280213912673779/

Mar 8: Captain Marvel Screening
https://www.facebook.com/events/146402602940724/

Mar 8: Temple – Edition 5 (fundraiser for Victoria Sexual Assault Centre)
https://www.facebook.com/events/336557420316560/

Mar 9: Aerobics & Mimosas
https://www.facebook.com/events/623450218125193/

Mar 10: Get Cozy with the Vixens Burlesque
https://www.facebook.com/events/299030654290219/

Mar 11: Matchmaker Monday Salty Broads in Space
https://www.facebook.com/events/2074835849263002/

Because what we need most is each other and a little bit of glitter!

We’re using “womxn” spelling to include trans individuals ♥.

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Riot Grrrls Revue Presents: Locker Room Talk (A Feminist Show)
Mar
2
7:30 PM19:30

Riot Grrrls Revue Presents: Locker Room Talk (A Feminist Show)

The Riot Grrrls Revue is bringing you another intense, patriarchy-smashing, politically-oriented show! This production uses comedy and campy theatre to deconstruct the misogyny and trans-misogyny in sport culture.

We invite people of all genders and sexualities and from all walks of life to join us and connect with us - bring your parent(s), bring your partner(s), come alone. Come be part of the supportive and loving feminist energy that we all need!

Tanille will be there as your Consent Captain for the evening.

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Crush 20, A Queer Dance Party
Feb
22
to Feb 23

Crush 20, A Queer Dance Party

CRUSH 20
DJ's:
BIOSHIP
NESS-T
MARLEE
DOORS WILL BE OPEN AT 10:30PM.
Our Instagram:
@Crushcollectiveyyj

There is a suggested donation of $5 – $15
However, no one will be turned away for lack of funds! Our desire is that others will pick up the slack.

Community Beneficiary: A member of our community who needs extra support at the moment. She is a queer, immigrant single parent. Let's dance hard, and donate what we can to lift her up!

This event takes place within the territory of the Lekwungen speaking peoples (as represented today by the Songhees and Esquimalt Nations). Let's continue to dismantle the colonial structures that surround this city.

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Sexuality Salon: Community Talk Show CONSENT & ACCOUNTABILITY
Feb
18
7:00 PM19:00

Sexuality Salon: Community Talk Show CONSENT & ACCOUNTABILITY

Join Tanille Geib and community members in Victoria's live talk show and community space all about sexuality at the Victoria Event Centre! We will bask in knowledge of sexuality with guests who have an intimate connection with the topic of the month. We will celebrate self expression in an artistic way by inviting artists to perform aspects of their own sexuality or perspectives. We will delve into weekly popular media with a critical thinking discussion. We will create a space where community can gather and experience a sex positive, celebratory way of exploring sexuality. We will do it together.

This month's topic is CONSENT & ACCOUNTABILITY. As consent culture rises, how does accountability culture interact with healing and moving forward? This will be a juicy and intimate talk on how we can receive feedback, build connection, and create more space to learn about ourselves and one another.

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Night Shift: Swing Fling
Feb
16
8:00 PM20:00

Night Shift: Swing Fling

Hosted at Royal BC Museum: Slip on your dancing shoes and get ready to hop the night away at the hottest party in town.
Learn some swing steps with a dance lesson then put your moves into practice on the dance floor as a live band plays tunes from times gone by. Don’t worry if you don’t have a partner: that’s what swing is all about…!

Talk with Tanille Geib on Consensual Dance

With consent ringing in our ears almost everyday now, how do we connect with ourselves and our community when it comes to partnered dancing? Tanille will explore some perspectives to be more connected with ourselves and to support us being better dance partners! 

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Intrepid Theatre Outstages: RIOT GRRRLS REVUE Showcase
Feb
2
8:00 PM20:00

Intrepid Theatre Outstages: RIOT GRRRLS REVUE Showcase

Tanille we be the consent captain on duty this evening!

A patriarchy-smashing, politically-oriented, queer-themed burlesque show! The Riot Grrrls Burlesque Revue highlights political issues through satire and theatrics. This altBurlesque Queer Showcase features a mix of Riot Grrrls Burlesque Revue favourites and brand new queer-themed numbers.

Doors 7:30pm, show 8:00pm.
Box office will open for ticket pick-up at 7:30pm
DJ danceparty after the show!
Latecomers will be admitted

https://www.riotgrrrlsburlesque.com/

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Sexuality Salon: Community Talk Show QUEER LOVE
Jan
21
7:00 PM19:00

Sexuality Salon: Community Talk Show QUEER LOVE

Join Tanille Geib and community members in Victoria's live talk show and community space all about sexuality at the Victoria Event Centre! We will bask in knowledge of sexuality with guests who have an intimate connection with the topic of the month. We will celebrate self expression in an artistic way by inviting artists to perform aspects of their own sexuality or perspectives. We will delve into weekly popular media with a critical thinking discussion. We will create a space where community can gather and experience a sex positive, celebratory way of exploring sexuality. We will do it together.

This month's topic is QUEER LOVE & DATING. How can we cultivate the love & dating relationships that we desire as queer people? Come learn about different sexual & romantic orientations, and mulitiple relationship structures and how it all relates to us being in queer in this community. How do we celebrate our queerness? How do we love & date? What are the challenges in dating as queer people? All of this, and more! Have questions or answers?! Get involved!

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Sexuality Salon, Live Community Talk Show: Modern Dating
Dec
17
7:30 PM19:30

Sexuality Salon, Live Community Talk Show: Modern Dating

Join Tanille Geib and community members in Victoria's live talk show and community space all about sexuality at the Victoria Event Centre! We will bask in knowledge of sexuality with guests who have an intimate connection with the topic of the month. We will celebrate self expression in an artistic way by inviting artists to perform aspects of their own sexuality or perspectives. We will delve into weekly popular media with a critical thinking cap and discussion. We will create a space where community can gather and experience a sex positive, celebratory way of exploring sexuality. We will do it together.

This month's topic is MODERN DATING! How is Tinder treating you in Victoria? What is Grinder like these days? Have you tried the HER app? How about the old, meeting through friends dealio? Or just going out on the town? How do you approach meeting new people? What about Stealthing, Ghosting, and Benching? 

FB event info: https://www.facebook.com/events/2307360562920954/

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YAH WAVE: Queer Punk Mosh Scene
Nov
25
11:00 AM11:00

YAH WAVE: Queer Punk Mosh Scene

Emma Power and I are filming a film! It is called YAH WAVE (more info & pitch here: https://www.storyhive.com/project/show/id/3711) And we are looking for all the QUEER PUNKs of the Lekwungen Territory (Victoria) for our Queer Punk Mosh Scene! Wanna get involved?! Please submit headshot and resume of previous acting experience to yahwavedoc@gmail.com

Short Synopsis: A non-narrative musical meditation on the commonalities found in spiritual dance rituals across distinct local cultures.

Facebook Event: https://www.facebook.com/events/2171885139740416/

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Sexuality Salon, Live Community Talk Show: Rejection & Jealousy
Nov
19
7:00 PM19:00

Sexuality Salon, Live Community Talk Show: Rejection & Jealousy

Join Tanille Geib and community members in Victoria's live talk show and community space all about sexuality at the Victoria Event Centre! We will bask in knowledge of sexuality with guests who have an intimate connection with the topic of the month. We will celebrate self expression in an artistic way by inviting artists to perform aspects of their own sexuality or perspectives. We will delve into weekly popular media with a critical thinking cap and discussion. We will create a space where community can gather and experience a sex positive, celebratory way of exploring sexuality. We will do it together.

This month's topic is REJECTION & JEALOUSY! Why is rejection so hard to accept? How do we reject others? Is there a space where we could get to celebrate someone's "No's"? How do rejection and jealousy intersect? How does jealousy come up in our lives and relationships? Let's share skills and tools to work on these difficult topics together! 

Community members & artists:
TBA

We are honoured and humbled that this gathering is happening on unceded traditional L'kwungen Territory.

If you want to get involved, reach out to Tanille at hello@tanillegeib.ca

FB event here: https://www.facebook.com/events/505759716607915/

Tickets here: sexsalonrejection.eventbrite.com

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Sexuality Salon Workshops: Fall 2018 Vancouver
Nov
14
to Nov 15

Sexuality Salon Workshops: Fall 2018 Vancouver

Join Tanille Geib for two outstanding workshops on Human Sexuality & Intimacy!

Wednesday November 14, 2018 6:30-8:45pm Desire, Honesty & Communication

Bring your curiosity and vulnerability! Explore how to understand your desires through honesty within yourself. Then once we tap into our desires, learn some skills on how to properly communicate these wishes to others.

Thursday November 15, 2018 6:30-8:45pm Healthy Relationships

Join us to be inspired on how to cultivate, understand, and nurture healthy relationships. We start from the beginning of what we were taught, what we believe now, and how we desire to go forward. A refreshing workshop on relationships, goals, desires, and to do's.

These events take place on the stolen lands of the Coast Salish Peoples including the xʷməθkʷəy̓əm, səl̓ilwətaɁɬ, Sḵwx̱wú7mesh territories.

Thank you to Hop Studios for hosting these important conversations.

FB Event here: https://www.facebook.com/events/469821853507304/

Tickets here: https://sexsalonvan2018.eventbrite.com

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Two Spirit Gathering: Consent & Healthy Sexuality Workshop
Nov
7
3:30 PM15:30

Two Spirit Gathering: Consent & Healthy Sexuality Workshop

  • Victoria Native Friendship Centre (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

A gathering that honours indigenous worldview is open to all LGBTQ2S Youth aged 12-24 years, and the Allies who support them. Come meet and connect over two days of ceremony, workshops, keynote speakers, information booths, group activities and feasting. This gathering also provides friends and families the opportunity to learn about the LGBTQ2S community in a safe and open environment.

To register visit www.vnfc.ca

Tanille will be facilitating a workshop on Consent & Healthy Sexuality on November 7, 2018 at 3:30pm.

Come learn the in-depths of what enthusiastic consent looks like. What does healthy consent feel like? How can we use it in a fun, sexy way? Come learn the spunky side of consent to have more meaningful connections in your life.

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Sexuality Salon, Live Community Talk Show: BREAK UPS
Oct
22
7:00 PM19:00

Sexuality Salon, Live Community Talk Show: BREAK UPS

This month's topic is BREAK UPS! How do we know when to break up with someone? How do we break up with someone? How do we transition into another way of relating? What are the best parts of breaking up? What are the worst parts of breaking up?

Community members & performers TBA. 

We are honoured and humbled that this gathering is happening on unceded traditional L'kwungen Territory.

If you want to get involved, reach out to Tanille at hello@tanillegeib.ca

Facebook Event here: https://www.facebook.com/events/278635119525290/

Eventbrite Tickets here: www.sexsalonbreakups.eventbrite.com

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The Riot Grrrls Burlesque Revue presents: Monstrous Womxn
Oct
13
7:00 PM19:00

The Riot Grrrls Burlesque Revue presents: Monstrous Womxn

The Riot Grrrls Burlesque Revue is bringing you another intense, patriarchy-smashing, politically-oriented alternative burlesque show! This show deconstructs how womxn and feminine folk in general, are made out to be monsters when they break away from patriarchal social norms. 

Tanille will be there for a consent performance as well as their consent captain! 

FB Event Info here: https://www.facebook.com/events/277143186349188/

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Community Consent Conversation
Sep
27
5:30 PM17:30

Community Consent Conversation

Supported by the Victoria Event Centre, Tanille Geib their consent captain, will be hosting monthly conversations in the larger community to engage with folks on how to build a consent culture.

This conversation is for anyone who wants to get involved with creating a consent culture within their community events/spaces and the greater Victoria/Lekwungen Territory. 

Tanille will share skills, tools, and perspectives on how to build more enthusiastic connection and how to support people dealing with consent accidents/violations. 

FB Event here: https://www.facebook.com/events/540947299681201/

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Cultivating Sex Positivity Workshop @ Victoria Anarchist BookFair
Sep
23
3:00 PM15:00

Cultivating Sex Positivity Workshop @ Victoria Anarchist BookFair

Facilitated by Tanille Geib, we will take honest steps to uncovering how we become more sex positive in a sex negative world. Through discussion, reflections, and activities we can play with acknowledging fear and shame in a safer space. This workshop is designed to help you take steps to feeling more positive about sex, sexuality, and your expression of self.

This event in apart of the 13th Victoria anarchist bookfair.

Accessibility information: http://victoriaanarchistbookfair.ca/index.php/accessibility-and-safer-space-policy/

Statement of Indigenous Solidarity: http://victoriaanarchistbookfair.ca/index.php/statement-of-indigenous-solidarity/

FB Event info: https://www.facebook.com/events/296464084474939/

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